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About yogafire

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    FYI, previous username was kupo. Sorry for the confusion. Comment on my profile feed if you get either username reference! :D
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  • Favorite poses
    Warrior II for grounding my feet. Trikonasana - not for how deep I go, but how I've adjusted it and get a good QL stretch when I do it.
  • Least favorite poses
    Crow and other arm balances (wrists are weak, reminds me how much I need to increase my core and upper body strength!)
  • If I won the lottery I would...
    Go back to where I vacationed and be a permanent resident at the beachside resort in Thailand. Do yoga and get a massages everyday!
  • Favorite books
    Brene Brown's The Gifts of Imperfection made me realize what my yoga practice does for me (I blogged about this in Sept 2015 during 30-day mindfulness program). Once a yoga teacher quoted this author at the beginning of class, too.
  • Favorite movies
    The Secret Life of Walter Mitty. I rarely rewatch movies, but I like rewatching this to feel uplifted, with the aesthetics and music.
  • Favorite television shows
    Grey's Anatomy (still), Nashville, Homeland, Top Chef

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  1. Cool, thanks Larry! That's the kind of info I was looking for
  2. Good luck! I remember reading and enjoying your posts before, glad to see you back! Welcome back! I hope you are re-cultivating how you feel after your practice, and that helps motivate you to keep going! I remind myself that how I feel after class is the most rewarding aspect for me when I don't feel motivated to do yoga.
  3. You may also need to evaluate with a doctor or physical therapist whether the orthotics you were using are providing too much support if you are not getting any better. Anyway, assuming that isn't the case, the concept of "active feet" in Forrest yoga has helped me a lot with strengthening my arches - you lift your toes to activate your arches while pressing down on the corners of your feet in standing poses. I also follow this drill led by one of my other teachers (non-Forrest but same concept) - I cued it at 10 min for the specific exercise so you can preview first: And check out this discussion on flat feet for more ideas!
  4. Hi guys! I just got an email that a workshop / intensive is coming to me locally, so I'm super excited about the opportunity! However, I noticed some of the classes are focused on arm balances. I can hover for about one microsecond in crow, and my wrists get rather achy if I do too many attempts in one class. I have a history of weak wrists that are slowly building up on strength. Has anyone attended these arm balances classes before, and do you think there are enough alternatives or strength building exercises I can do instead if I can't execute the full arm balances? I normally modify for my wrists by doing things on my forearms (e.g. forearm stand against the wall instead of handstand), but I have not figured out any personal modifications for arm balances!
  5. Yoga is convenient because you can do at home, but I wouldn't call it free until you already have an established yoga practice. A very good and durable mat can be ~$60-90 (lifespan 3+ yrs) and if you are new to yoga and need instruction, then in person classes are $10-$20 each depending on promotion deals and location. You can follow along youtube videos but it's also good to get feedback in person once in awhile so someone can see your alignment and make sure you are being safe. I don't indoor cycle, but I heard it's one of the best low impact cardio activities. So, yoga has benefits but it doesn't really get your heart rate up as high as cycling or running, unless you are doing a very physical ashtanga or vinyasa practice. Why don't you check out a gym free trial and go to both a cycling and a yoga class? That might be the best way to sample both worlds because they really are complementary, not necessarily substitutes. I certainly wouldn't invest an indoor cycle at home until I knew I liked it.
  6. Ahhhh @HGB let me know what you do find because apparently you and my husband have the same apparel shopping needs. Do you have a Uniqlo nearby? They have a dry stretch sweatpants. The dry stretch material is thin and lightweight on the jacket, but it might be a little thicker for the sweatpants, so best to feel it in person. We were waiting for it to go on sale before buying. Recently I got Nike Vintage Gym capris that are super thin sweatpants material, but, I can't find the men's version (might be the legacy one?). I usually buy whatever is on sale online to try at home and then return in store (or has free mail returns).
  7. I think people admire what they are working on for themselves... so, like Larry said, I appreciate effort. To me, I also think that's what differentiates a "beautiful practice" vs. a "beautiful pose". May we all walk in beauty! (what my Forrest yoga teachers like to say during closing)
  8. Yup - and the reason for the variation is usually due to the bone structure, so there can be a huge disadvantage or something physical getting in the way. I went to a workshop last week, and you know how some people can squat and have their heels touch the ground? The teacher explained most Asians have a divot in the front of the ankle where the shin meets the foot, so then they can bend farther forward while in a squat. Because of that genetic disposition, it's probably why East Asian cultures prefer the squat toilets and to squat down while waiting when there are no chairs. And then the teacher gave another example that her student couldn't straighten his feet out in child's pose, so she propped him with blocs and blankets. She then said he was finally able to lay down and straighten his feet, but it was after 8 years. I completely understand what you mean that it's hard to feel the intangible things - most are pretty subtle, and I don't realize it's been happening until it happens more often and becomes a new pattern in my practice. That's a different kind of thinking that can evolve on its own, and again, on its own timeline. But in the meantime, keep taking progress pics every month or so and evaluate - the distance from your leg to the floor may not have changed, but, are you sitting up straighter and taller than before?
  9. If external environment is prompting some negative thoughts, can you close your eyes in the pose and turn inwards to focus on the feeling? E.g. when you folded over, instead of looking at your stomach, close your eyes and concentrate on pushing your foot down to the ground, bending from your hips, or whatever cues your teacher is saying at the time. One of my teachers cues us to notice whatever "internal dialogue is going on" and exhale it out to let it go. Wandering thoughts always happen - don't judge yourself for it and focus on inhaling for 4 seconds and exhaling for 6 seconds (a little longer). Or focus on an alignment cue - e.g. in warrior 2, is your back foot's outer arch pushing down into the ground? Can you make your stance longer and go deeper, so you have to engage your muscles? In that case, those endurance parts of the practice make me focus and take my mind off whatever else was going on before. Or try a different class to mix it up - sometimes ones that play music might help, or, a hatha style class where the teacher is constantly giving verbal alignment cues can give you a lot to listen to. I go to Hatha classes a lot now, but in the beginning I found music playing classes helped me stop looking at the clock and wanting to leave because I just let myself enjoy the music in the background.
  10. That's great you are reflecting on your practice. I was relieved to read that you acknowledge aspects that you have improved on. Those can be harder to achieve, believe it or not. Candace's confessions on her scorpion progress helped put things in context: Notice her progress pics are over multiple years, not just days or months. I was fixated on improving the asana (poses) part of my yoga practice for a bit. So I did one of Candace's monthly programs, and the main thing she asked us to do was to document how we felt before and after class. After reflecting more, I realized other aspects my yoga practice was giving me - things I could not see in my progress pictures, but things I felt, such as more stability, less shakiness while I got into my balancing pose. So even though I couldn't see any significant visual differences in the flexibility part, the engagement of new muscles is something I felt and could see in video, but not in pictures. And to answer your question, yes, everyone's body type is different. Flexibility comes more easily for me, but strength is hard for me to build. After 6 years of yoga now (2-3 times a week, so I'm probably on the more casual side), I still don't practice arm balances, but, I've accepted it and reframed how I view arm balances. I feel stronger in the upper body than before, so I know there is progress in the prep for my arm balances, even if I don't get up. Instead of focusing on whether your arms touch the floor, how does it feel when you lay back - is it less tight than it used to be, or do you feel more comfortable reaching just a little more than before? Sometimes we can get so fixated on a binary aspect of the pose (does it happen or not), we forget the subtleties of other progress we've made. That's what I think most people mean by the "journey" part of it - all the poses are on a continuum. And agree with Larry - if flexibility is the main goal, try yin or hatha yoga that hold the poses for longer if you haven't already done so.
  11. I found out I was doing pigeon pose unsafely for a few years until a teacher put a rolled up blanket underneath the buttock of my front leg (bent leg). I was sitting flat to the floor with hip and leg before by tilting over on my side, so my hips were not even. The blanket helped give me some height so my hips were level. Now I got more used to this, and I practice it without the blanket, but, still with the same gap from the floor by using my legs to support me upright. I believe the links above using props emphasize the same alignment, so I hope they have helped you!
  12. Hey there, have you ever heard the coping method to "surf the wave" or "ride the wave" with emotions? The idea is to sit with that emotion you are feeling, but not let it overtake you or give in to your first reaction (e.g. run away, numb oneself with substances). I think anxiety could be exponentially mounting on you because you (like me!) depend on the yoga for mental health. It's easy to overreact negatively if something goes amiss on what we normally depend on for relaxation. Instead, I view yoga as an opportunity to feel. No expectations on feeling better afterwards, just observing the feeling and not running away from it. I think the discussion in the other posts that Larry helpfully linked are more about emotional release but not necessarily triggering an anxiety attack. That sounds more crippling than what has been described as emotional releases. But see if reading those articles linked give some perspective on "feeling". Good luck! I know I would react the same way as you if I felt anxiety coming "out of nowhere". It may actually be out of somewhere, but, don't worry about trying to figure it out - just sort of get to know it well enough so it doesn't build fear in having you practice yoga again. I don't know if this will help you at all, but for me, whenever I put pressure on myself to "get better", it just made my anxiety worse or made me not sleep because I would try to solve or think of ways to solve it.
  13. Some yoga studios don't even play music - maybe you can see if that feels better for you? Then you can still go to the gym for other workouts (cardio classes, weight lifting) and listen to your own music. Yoga is learning about how to concentrate and focus in different ways, so in silence can be a new way. I disliked my first few classes without music in the beginning and realized I had been using music to distract myself from how laborious class felt at the time. Preferences change though - now I'm used to no music but think music can be fun once in awhile. I remember this is why @YogaByCandace doesn't put any music in her online yoga videos! She said you can play your own soundtrack instead.
  14. Is it at the top of the thigh or behind? If at the top, stretch out the quads. Mine used to cramp up when doing that. Like Anahata said, bending the knee and holding at toe is a good modification - you can work on straightening the leg from that point without tensing the quads up as much.
  15. Not sure if this is cheaper, but are there bluetooth earphones or cheap bluetooth headset that can pair with your phone, and keep your phone in a bag or under a jacket? Did you tell the instructors you just prefer your own music but can still hear their voice? They might be concerned you can't hear their guidance in case you are out of alignment. I can't imagine an instructor taking that personally - sort of crazy one instructor just cranked up the music in response?! If the music is too much, maybe try regular earplugs and test if you can still hear the instructor with them. Sort of like doing some poses with your eyes closed, heightens other senses more.